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keywords: description:How do I get in the Way! Spiritually I find myself getting in the way of doing things in a God honoring fashion when I exalt my own value and worth above Gods plan. 1 Corinthians 10:31, So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God. The purpose of my life is to bring glory to God. This ranges from preaching a sermon to eat a bowl of Special K. So the second I start doing anything for the praise I could receive and not for the glory of God, I begin to elevate myself and ultimately GET IN THE WAY.
Whose Way Am I Getting In? If the entire goal of life is to bring Glory to God then ultimately I am getting in way of Gods glory when I exalt myself. John 3:30 says, He must increase, but I must decrease. I have decided that with my entire life I need to decrease in order for His glory to increase. This results in me Getting Out Of The Way.
Staying Out of the Way Brings a Whole New Perspective! When my life is suddenly less about me succeeding and more about the glory of God then my perspective changes drastically. Now when a huge snow storm comes the week before the biggest conference of the year it is not about me needing to get stuff done but about how can I serve God through this situation. When trials and tragedies come and life gets crazy it is easier to not take a Woe is Me attitude and focus on Gods plan in it all. Paul got it right in Philippians 1:21 when he said, For to me to live is Christ, and to die is gain. His whole life was about serving Christ and when that ends then that is a promotion to glory.
When I stay out of the way things work better. When I am stop being annoying and get out of my brothers way then he does not have to hurt me. When I move away from being nosy others can finish their task. When I get out of the lane on the play it could open things up for the guard to score on the drive. Ultimately, when I get out of the way of Gods glory then He is Exalted and the purpose of my life is accomplished.No comments: Saturday, November 27, 2010 Orthodox Hypostasis versus Docetism, Arianism And Nestorianism
Introduction
[1] The Holy Bible : English Standard Version. (Wheaton: Standard Bible Society, 2001), Php 2:58.
New Models of Youth Groups
The newest model as taught by Mark Driscoll and other leading pastors is the small group model. They believe that this model will work as a better tool to disciple the teens within your youth group. I agree that this would help with discipleship, but I am not sure how well it would work with outreach. Just imagine the amount of concern that could come from being the first time youth kid in some random dudes house with some random kids you really do not know.
I think that within the youth group we need to setup small groups and encourage intentional discipleship, but I do not think it is the only answer.
The Old Model
The old model is to have a young man, barely older that the teens, get up and have an exciting game planned and maybe a 15-20 minute devotional about some sort of life principle. This model has drawn many kids in, and depending on the excitement of the leader has helped some kids get involved faithfully. The downside is that many kids are going through the whole program and then graduating and abandoning their relationship with Christ for something bigger and flashier.
My View on the Ideal Youth Group
I want to share something that I feel we need to change within churches around the country in order to make our youth groups more effective.
1. Mature Youth Pastors
The current model of the youth pastor is generally a young man who has just graduated from Bible College and is using this ministry as a stepping stone to the eventual senior pastor position they desire. Here are the problems in that.
a. Immaturity
A lot of these youth pastors will enter this ministry ill prepared to truly lead these kids in their spiritual growth. The will become easily discouraged when the kids present challenges (and that happens daily). It will be easy for them just to pack up and leave instead of trying to stick it out.
Another potential problem is that they will strive to be cool with the kids too much. Sometimes in the desire to win the affection of the teens the youth pastor will compromise their spiritual leadership to do something foolish. This leads in confusion for the teens when they know what their youth pastor is really like, but then hear him talking about being different that the world.
b. Further Education
A lot of youth pastors will leave the youth pastorate in order to go to seminary and pursue further education. There is nothing wrong with this, but it does add unnecessary change to the teens high school years.
c. Unorganized
A lot of young youth pastors do not take the time to setup a plan for their lessons. This leads to unorganized youth meetings that are nothing more than a recreational activity.
d. Job Promotion
If the youth pastor is there only until they can find a better job then at the first sign of a better job they will leave.
I have heard it said that the average length of stay for the youth pastor is between 18 months and 3 years. This is too high of a turnover rate and needs to be fixed to better minister to and disciple our teens.
I propose that churches bring in mature youth pastors that feel God has specifically called them to lead teens in their walk with the Lord. This man will be mature which will help the kids learn by example. This man is already educated at a graduate level and can disciple the kids on a deeper level without the distracting call to pursue more education. He will more than likely be organized after having to juggle school, family and work duties. If he feels called to the youth pastorate then he is more likely to stay for a longer period of time and will help the kids grow in the most effective ways all the way through their seminary time.
2. Use both modes of discipleship
I think that the church should use both means of discipling kids. Have a great program with teaching on intentional topics of spiritual growth, but then also be intentional in your approach to discipling the kids. Assign the youth leaders to different care groups that they actively pursue in helping them grow through; one on one discipleship, attending their events, and praying for them on a regular basis. Always keep a good portion of time open for the kids to seek counseling. Never just counsel them one time on a specific topic, but stick with them and help them grow.
I do agree that the current system is broken, but with some adjustments I think it could be extremely effective.2 comments: Tuesday, November 2, 2010 GOD IS GOOD ALL THE TIME!When I think about the serious things in life, my relationship with God and my church I cannot help but be overwhelmed by the wonderful ways God has blessed me. As I sit at my desk today and work on Greek and Hebrew and a message for an upcoming chapel message, I cannot help but be overwhelmed at how great our God is, but what if all of that was ripped away from me. Would God still be good, would I still love Him, would I do everything in my power to save my family, and would I give my time, my money to my church?
Today started a little bit emotional for me as I sat in the doctors office and listened to my little baby. I cannot help but be overwhelmed by the joy of one of the things I have wanted for most of my life, a baby. I love way that God has chosen to bless me with this even though I am so underserving of being able to bring up a youngster in the ways of the Lord. Thank you, God!
My mood changed quickly when I got back to work and realized that my tire still was flat. As I changed it I realized that all my tires were cracked and in rough shape, I could not help but begin to think that God was being so unfair to expect me on a limited income to come up with $500 to replace my tires. Woe is me, my life is so unfair, why do I even own this stupid car, is God not aware of how hard I am working for me, all flashed through my brain. Even as the bad attitude started to slip into the forefront I got a call from a young man who I have had the opportunity of watching be changed by the power of Gods Word. So if God wants my car to sit unused for a while, that is okay, we have two anyways. Thank you, God for allowing me to go through this challenge in order to be changed to be more like your Son.
There is a particular blog that I have wanted to read, but I have not yet because of busyness, but today I carved some time aside for it. As I read about Matt Chandler, a 35 year old pastor who last Thanksgiving had a seizure and found out he had a large tumor on his brain. He talked about Hebrews 11 and how so many of the people in that chapter saw God do great things on their behalf, but some of them were tortured and struggled and died for the cause of Christ. The story of Matt Chandler struggling through 18 months of chemo and yet still praising God for allowing him to experience Gods goodness in all this. Matt Chandler, I am so thankful for God allowing me to read about you being faithful in all of this. Thank you, God!
I read about friends who are struggling to pay their bills, keep their marriages, or even enjoy life, and think about Gods purpose in their life. I hope they will use this opportunity to grow in the Lord.
Whatever you struggling with today remember God is good and He has a purpose for your trial. Do not blame God, but trust in Him and remember the very fact you have an opportunity for forgiveness of your sins is way more than you deserve.
Let me introduce myself. I am the owner of the loud voice and the constant laugh that I am sure you can hear. I am your daddy. Let me tell you something, I am tired of waiting for you to come to stay with me. I really love you so much and hope you will keep growing. I wish you could see your mom right now. She is so cute. She loves you so much, but you are already wearing her out. She likes to sleep now more than normal.
When you get here I want you to know that we are going to protect you so much. We have so many plans to spend the time making sure your stay will be comfortable. One piece of advice I want to give to you is to learn how to be patty trained as soon as possible. While I am sure we will have fun changing your diaper, it will just be better when you can use the big people toilet.
Right now mommy and daddy are working so hard to get ready for you and to make a better life in the future. We are going to be involved in full-time ministry for the rest of our life, so I know that might add some extra work in our schedules. It will be worth it though in the end.
I am going to let you go now but I wanted you to know how much I love you. So tonight when we pray together again I hope you will recognize my voice and know that your daddy is right there with your mommy and we are all in love with each other.
Love You,
DaddyNo comments: Monday, October 25, 2010 Do The Work of The Ministry Even When You Don't Get Paid for It.This will be a short blog due to my work and school load, but I wanted to share this.
Today after lifting weights I was showering up and getting ready for the day. The same group of guys are always in the locker room at the same time and we have developed a bit of a relationship. There are usually a bunch of older guys who joke with each other about politics and sports and ask me every day how much weight have I lost. I love these guys. Well right as we are all about done getting dressed a certain man comes in who is a little bit grumpy and gives us his update about his cancer treatments. I always ask him how it is going and tell him I am praying for him.
One of the other members of my locker room changing game is a man who is a full-time minister. I noticed today that when the opportunity came open to share the gospel with this older gentleman he was all of a sudden in a hurry and left. The moment was lost and I wanted to get back to talking about it, but I did not know how. Then the head of maintenance for the Community Center came in and opened a conversation with the man and showed him he was concerned for him.
I left today with two thoughts in my mind.
So often Christians are disgusted by the story of the two priests who passed by the man on the side of the road in the story of the good Samaritan, yet practically they do it all the time to others.
Even when it is not your job to care for others and share the Gospel, it is still your job.
Thank you Tony Costa for helping me see this truth.No comments: Saturday, October 16, 2010 Some Ridiculously Romantic Thoughts about the Best Girl In the World, Tori KjaerSo I started this blog to talk about the lessons that I have been learning during my seminary experience. On Mondays I write about the lessons I am learning in the classroom and on Fridays I write about the lessons I am learning in my practical ministry opportunities. I enjoy doing this because if I only focus on Theology then I fall into the potential trap of worshipping at the altar of academia and if I do not balance my ministry with theological training then I run the risk of being a person doing nothing more than running a program.This morning though my mind is filled with nothing more than the biggest lesson I will learn during the next three years and all the subsequent years. That lesson is that I have the most amazing wife in the world. Although I do not get to spend as much time with her as I would like, I cannot help but be excited at the very sight of her. I feel like a puppy wagging my tail every time I see her coming into view.So today I devote this entire blog to my best friend, hugest supporter, most awesome counselor, favorite taste tester, hardest worker, most beautiful companion, and most loving mother that has ever been made. Tori Kjaer I love you and here are the reasons why.Best FriendHave you ever been to a slumber party with your best friend? The sleeping bags, the late night conversations, the greasy pizza and silly jokes can never compare to the real excitement of the friendships that you are building and enjoying. Well that is how every day with Tori is. We go to sleep having late night conversations about anything and everything. In fact many times we fall asleep in the middle of a sentence. We do not eat the greasy pizza but nothing spices up a meal better than the opportunity to look across the table at the person I love more than anyone else in the world. Well the silly jokes are definitely there.I remember hearing that I should marry my best friend in the world. As a young man I thought it was hard to understand that because all my best friends were guys and therefore not to be married. After I met Tori though I found out what that means. Every day I get to be with my best friend and I would never change that.Hugest SupporterIf most husbands looked at their wife and said, Ok well for the next three years I am going to be working in an internship, getting a masters degree and rarely sleeping. So what I need you to do is to keep your job and work hard to pay the bills. Oh by the way I will be provided housing and utilities but I will not bring home a paycheck. I had that conversation and she did not even think twice about whether or not she would support me. That is what is nice about having someone who is your biggest supporter. Did I mention the fact that when I am called upon to serve she is right there serving with me.Awesome CounselorSo being in the ministry brings a large amount of stress into a persons life. Every day you carry the burden of helping others be more like Christ. In my previous ministry before I had Tori as my support I turned to food to try to cope with this, but now I go home to a wonderful counselor who will listen, advise and love me no matter what the situation is.Taste TesterOk so I am a self proclaimed cook. I love cooking for everyone and every occasion. I know that not every time do I put out absolutely delicious food, and it would be tempting for someone who loves me to pretend like it is good. I love Tori because she will never lie about the truth. If it does not taste good she will tell me it is gross and how she thinks I can fix it. This is in every area of my life, I can always count on honest answers that intended to help me grow.Hard WorkerIn my life I have known some hard workers, but none can hold a candle to the girl who gives her whole life to working and serving for others. She goes to her job whether she feels good or not (and lately it has been more not). When she comes home she works tirelessly to keep our house running smoothly. I bet right now she is working on something.Beautiful CompanionMy wife is by far the most beautiful girl in the whole world. Just seeing the sun glisten off her red-blonde hair that is made of pure gold makes me know that I am about to experience something gorgeous. One glimpse of her smile will make my heart melt completely. I can honestly say that this is one dude who married outside of his league. I am so lucky to be married to a girl this beautiful.Her looks are gorgeous, but just hearing the sound of her voice is enough to make all the problems in world right. The sayings that she has taught me and beautiful softness of her life fill my mind and heart at all times.Loving MotherIn about 6 months we will get to hold the most incredible gift that God has given us as a couple. I am so confident that Tori will be the best mother. I have observed be a loving mother to our puppy and watched the way she has cared for the 2 International Students we have been able to serve in our home. I cannot wait to parent this family with her.
Tori, I love you more than anyone else, ever.1 comment: Older PostsHomeSubscribe to:Posts (Atom)FollowersBlog Archive 2011(1) February(1)Johnny, Get Out Of The Way 2010(23) November(4) October(6) September(8) August(5)About MeJohnny K.I love to preach and teach God's Word, I love to cook, I love to make my wife as happy as I can. I love God with all of my heart.View my complete profile
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