Thriving Parents - shifting Parenthood from barely surviving to thriving

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3 ways to connect with your kids individually5 things I do every day to connect with my kidsWhat most mothers won t tell you they want for Mother s Day May 4, 2017 By KristinaGrum 5 CommentsFidget toys that won t drive you crazy Mom, can you take me to Learning Express?  There s something I want to get. Sure, what is it? I can t explain it.  It s something for your hands.  It s supposed to help with fidgeting. Do you know what it looks like? Yes, Colin has one. Yes, my child wanted a fidget spinner.This post contains affiliate links.By now you ve probably seen, or at least heard of, fidget spinners.  There are different models like this one or this one, which are similar to what our daughter bought that day.I have a fidget problem.I constantly need to move my hands and hold things in them.  If you ve ever seen me teach a class or speak at an event, you are guaranteed to see me with something in my hands.  Even when I do a webinar or a Facebook live event, I have to have something in my hands.As someone who has ADHD, has 2 children with ADHD, and is constantly needing to move my hands, these fidget spinners seemed odd to me.  I ve spent my whole life making my own adaptations and learning ways to be productive.  At first glance, fidget spinners and fidget cubes looked more distracting than anything else.  I couldn t understand how they would help to focus people.Fidgets are good for kids when they re learning because it helps them use the left and right side of their brains.  It s also good for a child who needs:repetitive motionbusy handssensory inputhelp with active listeningto calm childrenBut fidgets are usually quiet.  Fidget spinners are new and the only fidget I ve really seen that makes noise even if it isn t necessarily loud.  There are a lot of debates right now over whether spinner fidgets should be allowed in the classroom.  Teachers are finding them distracting and disturbing other students.  The other night Katherine was reading a book while using her fidget spinner.  I had started writing this post and was so distracted that I had to ask her to stop.  A few days later I was trying to write this post again and Matt was working on his laptop next to me.  He was playing with the fidget spinner and again, I was too distracted to finish this post.Now that we have 3 in the house I can tell you they don t help me (or our kids) to focus.  They distract the user and the people around.  They are tons of fun even Matt is learning how to do tricks with them!We ve always had fidget toys in our house.  We ve used them for homework and one of our girl s teachers actually has a fidget box in the classroom that we have contributed to.We have over 20 fidgets in our house for almost every part of the body and none of these make noise or distract others.  Here s our list:Hand fidgetsWood Fidget PuzzleThese are my absolute favorite fidget toys.  I hold it in my hand and move the cubes all around.  I don t need to look at it, it doesn t make a sound, and it doesn t distract anyone else.There s also this one which looks more fun.  But personally, I find the colors more distracting.Fidget WidgetSquishy starfishTanglesStretchy StringThis stretchy string can stretch 2 feet longer than the one above.Hourglass FidgetThis one is neat too but it can be distracting because you want to see the cool colors move.  However, this could be a great calming tool for kids to watch while they work on calming themselves downMonkey RingsAtom BallsPull and Stretch BallsStress BallAnother stress ball Squishy Stress BallsChewable fidgetsChewable Pencil toppersChewable NecklaceRainbow Chewable NecklaceSoccer Ball Chewable NecklaceTactile Chewable RulerFoot fidgetsChair bandsSpiky massage ballsFoot rollerWhole body fidgetsStability seatWedge seat cushionDo you know of any other fidgets that aren t distracting?  If so, share them in the comments so we can try them out!xoxo kCheck out my tips on how to be productive with ADHDIf you or your child have been diagnosed with ADHD, or just have difficulty focusing, these strategies will help you get things done!Read more about how to teach your child to calm downSometimes emotions are too big for our children to be able to process. It s important we teach them to manage them and that starts with teaching them these 3 ways to calm themselves down.Click this photo to pin this post and save it for later! April 16, 2020 By KristinaGrum 15 Comments3 ways to connect with your kids individuallyIt s funny how when the kids are little the days seem to drag on. I remember the days when Kate would do nothing but cry and scream all day and wonder when the heck 6 pm would be coming. I also remember the days that she would roll and play on the floor and I Read MoreOctober 4, 2017 By KristinaGrum Leave a Comment5 things I do every day to connect with my kidsin the midst of busy days, I work really hard to make sure each of our three children gets enough one-on-one time with me and my husband.  I found that as we had more kids, connecting with them individually become much harder.  I m also realizing as they get older, it s harder to make time for Read MoreMay 11, 2017 By KristinaGrum 1 CommentWhat most mothers won t tell you they want for Mother s DayThis week is when partners all over the country are scrambling to figure out what to get for a Mother’s Day gift.  They’ll think about what they can buy and wonder if it should be: a gift for her (i.e., jewelry) a gift for the house (i.e., a blender) a gift for the family (i.e., Read More Primary Sidebar connect with me Search this website Join the Thriving Parents Community group on Facebook to find support and ideas from me and other positive parents

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